I’m a married woman in my 30s with one child. My husband takes me for granted and I don’t even fancy him any more.
We probably haven’t had sex in 18 months and I’m not bothered. I haven’t been happy with him for some time and I’ve now fallen in love with one of my friend’s husbands.
I’ve never told him how I feel, but there’s definitely chemistry between us. He flirts with me a bit, but it’s subtle and I don’t think anyone else would notice.
I was at a school concert the other night and he was sitting in front of me and I felt turned on just staring at the back of his neck!
The thing is, I know his wife has been sleeping with someone else – in fact, loads of people know about it, but he doesn’t. I think he deserves to know what’s going on, but I’m worried it’ll backfire on me.
I don’t want to be the messenger who gets shot as I keep hoping we’ll somehow get together.
What would you do in this situation? I like this guy so much, but I know it’s complicated. Please help.
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